{"id":96,"date":"2012-09-05T12:43:18","date_gmt":"2012-09-05T02:43:18","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/set3.bh0.co\/?p=96"},"modified":"2012-09-05T12:43:18","modified_gmt":"2012-09-05T02:43:18","slug":"i-have-habit-of-telling-people-everything-about","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/set3.bh0.co\/?p=96","title":{"rendered":"I have habit of telling people everything about&#8230;"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>I have habit of telling people everything about myself. It&#8217;s awful. I know that hell will break loose if I tell someone everything, or everyone nothing. (Or not, maybe people don&#8217;t care about my life)<\/p>\n<p>So to counter this, I tell everyone something different. Of course each fact I tell is true, I can&#8217;t lie.<\/p>\n<p>But then what if I do something really, really stupid later in life (or even tomorrow), and then suddenly everyone wants to know every tiny detail about me?<\/p>\n<p>Back in the days before the internet, you would have to talk to everyone and ask them about this person of interest. Now, a list of Facebook friends, a good Facebook stalk and a few loose lips and everything comes out. <\/p>\n<p>Of course I can&#8217;t stop people from stalking my Facebook. But I can control my spreading of information. The idea is to try to tell two people who are unlikely to cross paths (e.g. a high school friend and a colleague) two pieces of information that would generate significant conversation if they were known together. <\/p>\n<p>The theory behind &#8216;decentralizing&#8217; information is that if someone wanted to see the whole picture, it would take a long time to piece together all the information from many sources.<\/p>\n<p>But I don&#8217;t know how long that theory will hold.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>I have habit of telling people everything about myself. It&#8217;s awful. I know that hell will break loose if I tell someone everything, or everyone nothing. (Or not, maybe people don&#8217;t care about my life) So to counter this, I tell everyone something different. Of course each fact I tell is true, I can&#8217;t lie. [&hellip;]<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":2,"featured_media":0,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"status","meta":{"footnotes":""},"categories":[1],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-96","post","type-post","status-publish","format-status","hentry","category-uncategorized","post_format-post-format-status"],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/set3.bh0.co\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/96","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/set3.bh0.co\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/set3.bh0.co\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/set3.bh0.co\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/users\/2"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/set3.bh0.co\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fcomments&post=96"}],"version-history":[{"count":0,"href":"https:\/\/set3.bh0.co\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/96\/revisions"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/set3.bh0.co\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fmedia&parent=96"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/set3.bh0.co\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fcategories&post=96"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/set3.bh0.co\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Ftags&post=96"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}