{"id":206,"date":"2013-12-11T21:56:55","date_gmt":"2013-12-11T10:56:55","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/set3.bh0.co\/?p=206"},"modified":"2013-12-11T21:56:55","modified_gmt":"2013-12-11T10:56:55","slug":"recently-i-have-been-reading-a-lot-from","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/set3.bh0.co\/?p=206","title":{"rendered":"Recently I have been reading a lot from&#8230;"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>Recently, I have been reading a lot from the relationships section of reddit (r\/relationships). There&#8217;s something satisfying about reading about people&#8217;s questions and problems!<\/p>\n<p>Today, one story took my interest.<\/p>\n<blockquote class=\"reddit-embed-bq\" style=\"height:316px\" ><p><a href=\"https:\/\/www.reddit.com\/r\/relationships\/comments\/1p7hqf\/my_24f_boyfriend_24m_is_upset_because_he_thinks\/\">My [24F] boyfriend [24M] is upset because he thinks that my guy friend [25M] likes me. How do I assure boyfriend that he has nothing to worry about even though he is kind of right?<\/a><br \/> by<a href=\"https:\/\/www.reddit.com\/user\/wanderingbee3432\/\">u\/wanderingbee3432<\/a> in<a href=\"https:\/\/www.reddit.com\/r\/relationships\/\">relationships<\/a><\/p><\/blockquote>\n<p><script async src=\"https:\/\/embed.reddit.com\/widgets.js\" charset=\"UTF-8\"><\/script><\/p>\n<p>And its update:<\/p>\n<blockquote class=\"reddit-embed-bq\" style=\"height:316px\" ><p><a href=\"https:\/\/www.reddit.com\/r\/relationships\/comments\/1pp2w8\/update_my_24f_boyfriend_24m_is_upset_because_he\/\">[Update] My [24F] boyfriend [24M] is upset because he thinks that my guy friend [25M] likes me. How do I assure boyfriend that he has nothing to worry about even though he is kind of right?<\/a><br \/> by<a href=\"https:\/\/www.reddit.com\/user\/wanderingbee3432\/\">u\/wanderingbee3432<\/a> in<a href=\"https:\/\/www.reddit.com\/r\/relationships\/\">relationships<\/a><\/p><\/blockquote>\n<p><script async src=\"https:\/\/embed.reddit.com\/widgets.js\" charset=\"UTF-8\"><\/script><\/p>\n<p>In a nutshell, it&#8217;s about a guy friend who&#8217;s a bit too close to a girl who has a boyfriend.<\/p>\n<p>It dawned on me, this guy friend is a) looking for some company and b) is desperate for a girlfriend. <\/p>\n<p>AND THEN I REALISED that this is what I am turning into! A guy, while desperate for a relationship, who fucks up in a massive way that will have untold consequences. <\/p>\n<p>I&#8217;ve convinced myself that the only way to stop becoming this type of guy is to stop wanting a relationship, and be happy about being independent, but not necessarily alone. I&#8217;m creepy enough that I know I will fuck up anything resembling a relationship.<\/p>\n<p>But at the end of the day the sad and undeniable truth is that I am turning into a monster. Change must occur before it&#8217;s too late.<\/p>\n<p>As one commenter said &#8220;Men and women can&#8217;t be friends because the sex part always gets in the way.&#8221; What utter bullshit. Men and women can be friends given a generous amount of time and intelligent conversation.<\/p>\n<p>More tasty stories from r\/relationships later.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>Recently, I have been reading a lot from the relationships section of reddit (r\/relationships). There&#8217;s something satisfying about reading about people&#8217;s questions and problems! Today, one story took my interest. My [24F] boyfriend [24M] is upset because he thinks that my guy friend [25M] likes me. How do I assure boyfriend that he has nothing [&hellip;]<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":2,"featured_media":0,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"status","meta":{"footnotes":""},"categories":[1],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-206","post","type-post","status-publish","format-status","hentry","category-uncategorized","post_format-post-format-status"],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/set3.bh0.co\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/206","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/set3.bh0.co\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/set3.bh0.co\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/set3.bh0.co\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/users\/2"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/set3.bh0.co\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fcomments&post=206"}],"version-history":[{"count":0,"href":"https:\/\/set3.bh0.co\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/206\/revisions"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/set3.bh0.co\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fmedia&parent=206"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/set3.bh0.co\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fcategories&post=206"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/set3.bh0.co\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Ftags&post=206"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}